Well, I finally voted, although I agree that the options listed are somewhat skewed to getting a negative vote for Sally's ideas. (Just sayin', even tho I understand the frustration that generated the poll)
The only AI I have really spent time at was in Fiji, and necessary for the location I wanted. In some ways, I enjoyed the full service pampering, but on a regular basis, do not want to put my money into such an experience. IOW, it was fun for a once-in-a-lifetime trip, but I'd rather spend annual dollars elsewhere. If Sally invited me to her fancy resort as a guest (not a bottom feeding exchanger LOL) then I'd have a great time, I'm sure. I have other friends that are all about the drinks at the poolside, personal attention, etc., so I get it that there are differing views on what vacations should be. But I'd be looking for places to go in the area - otherwise I'd feel trapped if I just hung out at the resort - even with multiple exclusive pools/restaurants/etc. I probably would not plan to share vacations with these good friends, as I realise that our desires are different and it wouldn't work, as much as we have fun together! I'm pretty happy in a medium to nice place to rest my head, as it is the location that I'm interested in. I intend to be out and about anyway - not hanging at the pool. (peeing or otherwise) While a nice pool is a fun diversion, it is not mandatory - as I will be at the beach, or out in the wilderness, given my choice. I had just as much fun, if not more so, tent camping in Alaska with bears outside at Katmai National Park, then staying in a high end lodge in Denali to fish and enjoy that area.
The reason I bought TS where I did was location. Period. Otherwise, probably wouldn't have spent the money we did. So, in that respect with regards to the poll --- if the only way to get a certain location was this mega-resort (kind of an oxy-moron) than I'd want it at a reasonable price w/low MF's. I would not buy otherwise, and just rent to visit once in awhile. (as in Fiji - hope to go back, but not an every year or even every other year possibility logistics-wise) I will say that over time, the low end of what I'm willing to put up with has changed, but the high-end places are not really my cup of tea, either. Fun to visit once in awhile, but not as a lifestyle.