Hello, I'm back! I had a medical procedure on Wednesday. I didn't post much for a couple days because I was tired, and was also answering a lot of PMs with advice. The medical procedure went very well. So, I am less stressed and panicky than I was a few days ago.
MSchleicher, thank you for your suggestions, and I will PM you.
I don't want to get this thread off track again, but I also don't want to discourage anyone from considering all their possibilities for health insurance. The ACA Marketplace would be a good option for some people. Medicaid would also be an option for some people, depending on income, assets, age, and state of residency. (20 states don't offer Medicaid to people aged 18-64, no matter how poor they are, unless they have young children or can prove they are disabled.)
My situation is complicated because I need a lot of expensive medications and care that many insurers won't cover. My current insurer gives me about the best coverage I can expect to find. A different insurer would likely cover less, but there's no way to know until I'm a customer. By the time my applications for "step-up care" or "prior authorization" were denied, my COBRA eligibility would probably have lapsed. And as Saintsfanfl noted, it is not currently the Open Enrollment period for the ACA Marketplace.
Also, my DH and I have already paid thousands towards our deductibles and copays. If we switch to a different insurance plan, we have to pay the deductibles and copays again.
Believe me, I have been struggling with medical coverage for years. If there were an easy solution, I would have found it by now.
As for the suggestion to get a reverse mortgage, the minimum age for one is 62, and both my DH and I are still in our 50s.
The was also a suggestion for me or my DH to declare a "strategic bankruptcy." I don't judge other people who declare bankruptcy. (Except maybe certain famous, rich people who have done it.) However, I would be truly ashamed to declare bankruptcy. I see it as an absolute last resort. The idea of just giving up and planning to go bankrupt doesn't appeal to me at all. I would much rather try to start a business that has a
chance of bankruptcy than just
plan to go bankrupt.
And, the timeshare business I am planning is not all that risky. I might not make much money, but I probably won't lose much, either.