I guess I have to blame my parents who taught me to live within my means and not to depend on handouts.
I understand what you're saying but it's not about living within (or outside) of your means. A few things are happening here:
-Yes, many people did live beyond their means. This is the easy thing to point the finger at.
-Most people did NOT live outside their means. I am an example of this. I sell mortgages. I'm making less than half of what I was making before all of this started. However, being a commission-only employee, it's difficult to figure out what my, "means," is (or are) as my income can fluctuate wildly. I need a place to live, a car to drive, etc. But when that income is pulled out from under you (even when you're not buying based on the amount you're making--but less), there's not much you can do. This is exactly what's happened to all of the people who are losing their jobs.
-If something isn't done, many people who are upside down in their homes might walk away. Whether it's right or not, it happened/is happening. This is bad for all of us as you can see by where the economy is currently. Foreclosures on homes is a big part of what's happening.
-The cash for clunkers thing was intended (originally) to get gas-guzzling/high emissions vehicles off the road. It's turned into a stimulus (of sorts) for the car manufacturers. Honestly, imo, it does neither I'll explain more when I have more time. Again, if the car manufacturers (domestic OR foreign) all go out of business, it's bad for our economy.
So, there is much more to all of this than just giving money out. Now, whether what has been done is the right thing and whether it's actually helped who it was (supposedly) intended to help, that's a totally different thread.