I have serious problems with insomnia and sleep as I was diagnosed last fall with sleep apnea. The cpap has mainly served to make my insomnia worse -it's a long story, but my equipment was malfunctioning at first and was very noisy, so sensitized me to using it. I've had insomnia way before the apnea diagnosis. I don't believe apnea is the whole story.
I have to use Lunesta every night; however, I am not pleased with the side effects. Even on Lunesta, I get a maximum of 5-5 1/2 hours sleep. I get a very tight feeling in my chest the next evening. I am now using 1/2 tablet of the Lunesta 3 mg when I can get away with it, and that lessens the side effects. But last night I had to take the whole tablet when I wasn't asleep by 2 a.m. I have found that taking two 500 mg. tablets of calcium with the Lunesta seems to help. Last night I had forgotten to take my calcium.
I want to talk to the doc about other meds and Trazodone sounds good. My sleep doctor dismissed the side effects of Lunesta, saying it wasn't a published side effect. I have also tried Sonata; it got me to sleep fast, but didn't keep me asleep for a long time.
I've gone all through sleep clinic behavior suggestions; i.e., keeping a sleep diary, sleep hygiene, etc, and it does help a little. Going to bed later and only using bed for sleep are good habits to develp; i.e., for an insomniac it's not good to try to go to bed too early. One of my sleep docs was a huge believer in using meditation and relaxation techniques. I bought a program designed to teach meditation (Healing Rhythms) but so far I haven't found it a big help. I need to use it more. Massage may also help some people; I tried it once; the effects aren't long lasting. The sleep doc also suggested hypnotherapy which I haven't tried, and acupuncture.
I think some of my other meds (i.e., blood pressure meds) might be interfering; I am planning to go to an endrocronologist to check out my thryoid blood levels (I have hypothyroidism) and am hoping he can analyze my meds. Other medications taken may have the side effect of insomnia.
Another aspect I may explore in the future is chronic fatigue syndrome. My mother had the related diagnosis of fibromyalgia. There are chronic fatigue syndrome clinics.
Oh, and also I tried a homeopathic remedy which was a sleep aid; I thought it helped me sleep, but I had the scary symptoms of hand and foot tingling from it and even foot pain, so I won't use it again.
Also, I have drastically cut my alcohol intake. I find that alcohol makes my insomnia worse -- especially wine. There is something in wine that bothers me more than beer. I can only tolerate about 1 glass of wine now, and I may get by without it affecting my sleep too much. Many days I'm having no alcohol. Too bad, because wine is my favorite drink.
Hope these thoughts help.
Sally