I have to say that I disagree with the recommendations and I would recommend that you look into the West Village. If you prefer quieter than you should know that the West Village is made up almost completely of single story buildings in a triplex or quad plex arrangement so you have no one above you ever and if you are lucky enough to get an end unit then you only have one party wall. This is in contrast to the large apartment building style accommodations elsewhere. Also, there are great pools at the West Village Club House and, at least the last time we were there, one of them is an adults-only pool so you can continue your goal of having a quiet and relaxing experience even while you are at the pool.