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So- I have been going to eye doctors since I was a little girl as I pretty much wore glasses my whole life. I loved the eye doctor I grew up using, but when we moved away it was too far to continue with him. He eventually retired, but my husband has been lucky enough to use his son, who acquired the practice and is just as skillful as his dad was.
I, on the other hand, have had to switch docs a few times, eventually settling on one nearby to where I used to work for the convenience and also her reputation as an excellent eye surgeon. Even my primary doctor recommended her as he used to work in the same medical group as she.
I like her ok, though she is quick and a bit detached (but surgeons can be like that), and I was familiar with her staff from my job. But over the years things seemed to deteriorate at the office as she brought in a couple of more additional docs and staff changed over. She also began to delegate tasks to the staff that she used to do.
You may recall when eye docs started charging separately for refraction instead of it being included in the exam. The doc steering me to her eye glass dept. etc. Staff doing tasks the doctor used to perform. OK. I have to deal with it.
Then- two years ago when I was there, she recommended an eye drop prescription for my severe dry eyes that was $250 out of pocket per month for me- though she had insisted I would get it free with this coupon a rep gave her. Well- it simply was not the case, so I went back to her office and the desk person made a note of it and told me there was nothing else available that I could use. Great. (note- did not ask the doctor).
So I try everything on the over the counter market. My eyelids are still "glued" shut over night and I have to tap them gently to get them to open.
Fast forward- I decide to make an eye appt now since we will be moving and it has been two years from the last. I hesitated to make it with her again for two reasons: 1) I am no longer working and it is a farther drive for me and 2) I have not been impressed with the staff she has doing things that she used to do. Plus the waiting! I make an appt with another doc I have never been to that is 10 minutes from here, but decide to cancel it after reading YELP reviews of the long wait times. So I decide to just go back to her since this will be my last time anyway.
Half hour wait. OK. Then it starts. Staff with literally no credentials. One young woman puts drops in my eyes. Has me read 3 lines on a chart with each eye. Then takes my glasses and does something with them and asks me if they are bifocals and leaves the room. Comes back and asks me if I want new glasses. "Huh? Well- do I need new glasses?" She smiles. She says well if I want them. ?? She - or the doctor I might add- hasn't done a complete eye exam yet for glasses. I tell her I will probably get them on line if I do need them because I can get them cheaper than at their place. She goes back out and comes back with another young woman.
This woman proceeds to tell me they can do refraction and I would have to sign a waiver and they would submit it to the insurance company and see if they pay it. I stop her cold and tell her I have a high deductible health plan and pay everything out of pocket anyway. Then she asks me if I want cataract surgery! I kid you not! I was like- "WHAT?!!". I ask her "shouldn't the doctor determine that? I have not seen the doctor yet or had my eyes examined for cataracts or glasses today!"
She smiles and says they usually leave it up to the patients. If their eyesight is not affecting their lifestyle then they may choose to forgo cataract surgery. They could do a dry eye test with a video of the eyes- but would need a waiver signed as they will submit to the insurance company to see if it is paid. Again I mention I have a high deductible plan anyway so I know I would have to pay. But I already know I have dry eyes so why would I need a test? Twice they asked me how often I put drops in my eyes. I tell them once every 4 hours. They ask me how many drops and how often? I tell them one or two drops every 4 hours and a gel at night time. What brand? I tell them all brands- whatever I buy. After a little more discussion they ask me "So you want as little done as possible today?" By now, my head is spinning and I am getting tired. I am not understanding this process. I tell them- yes. I am not going to agree to anything at this point. I just want the doctor to examine my eyes and make sure I have no eye disease or whatever. This whole visit seems so strange.
I tell them I will be moving next year also. "Oh- so Dr "D" would not be doing your surgery anyway". I tell them- "Not unless she thought I needed it right now!"
Just before putting more drops in my eyes for dilating one of them says to the other- shouldn't we do this and that first? I ask if they have reverse drops for when I have to drive home. They tell me no, but I can use sunglasses or they can give me the temp ones. Walk me to another waiting area. I am sitting with several other people my age- all stating they almost did not come because they hate the office process before seeing the doctor. They tell me if it weren't that she is such a good doctor and they needed surgery- they would not be there.
One guy had a melanoma and has to come there every 6 months. Another lady had cornea transplants and practically lives there. Another- for laser surgery. Ok- so it is not only me that feels this way. I'm not crazy.
I finally get in to see the doctor. She puts more drops in my eyes now. She reads my chart. "You only put drops in once per day? " she asks. "Uh- no! I put them in every 4 hours!". SMH....
She then asks about my dry eyes and I explain about my eyelids not opening in the morning. During the day they usually don't bother me but I do put saline in anyway every 4 hours. She proceeds to look at my eyes and calls out some numbers to another assistant there in the room to write in my chart. Says my cataract has "advanced". Says my eyes are very dry. Asks where I am moving. Wishes me luck and leaves.
Needless to say I was not anywhere near happy with this visit. I don't know what anyone else's experience is with eye doctors but this visit was bizarre to say the least and I got nothing out of it other than the doc saying my cataract had advanced but no mention of surgery and that my eyes were dry (which I already knew and she told me two years ago as well)- and she was able to tell me without an expensive dry eye video test. Nor did she make any suggestions to help me with the dry eye issue.
As for my eyesight- well I have had a better eye test at the DMV than here. I mean- really? Reading 3 lines n a chart and that's it? Used to have an extensive eye test with charts and all kinds of things and instruments to compare with the current eye glass prescription.
This is the state of medical care today. Here's to hoping I can find a good eye doctor in New Hampshire. Just unbelievable...
I, on the other hand, have had to switch docs a few times, eventually settling on one nearby to where I used to work for the convenience and also her reputation as an excellent eye surgeon. Even my primary doctor recommended her as he used to work in the same medical group as she.
I like her ok, though she is quick and a bit detached (but surgeons can be like that), and I was familiar with her staff from my job. But over the years things seemed to deteriorate at the office as she brought in a couple of more additional docs and staff changed over. She also began to delegate tasks to the staff that she used to do.
You may recall when eye docs started charging separately for refraction instead of it being included in the exam. The doc steering me to her eye glass dept. etc. Staff doing tasks the doctor used to perform. OK. I have to deal with it.
Then- two years ago when I was there, she recommended an eye drop prescription for my severe dry eyes that was $250 out of pocket per month for me- though she had insisted I would get it free with this coupon a rep gave her. Well- it simply was not the case, so I went back to her office and the desk person made a note of it and told me there was nothing else available that I could use. Great. (note- did not ask the doctor).
So I try everything on the over the counter market. My eyelids are still "glued" shut over night and I have to tap them gently to get them to open.
Fast forward- I decide to make an eye appt now since we will be moving and it has been two years from the last. I hesitated to make it with her again for two reasons: 1) I am no longer working and it is a farther drive for me and 2) I have not been impressed with the staff she has doing things that she used to do. Plus the waiting! I make an appt with another doc I have never been to that is 10 minutes from here, but decide to cancel it after reading YELP reviews of the long wait times. So I decide to just go back to her since this will be my last time anyway.
Half hour wait. OK. Then it starts. Staff with literally no credentials. One young woman puts drops in my eyes. Has me read 3 lines on a chart with each eye. Then takes my glasses and does something with them and asks me if they are bifocals and leaves the room. Comes back and asks me if I want new glasses. "Huh? Well- do I need new glasses?" She smiles. She says well if I want them. ?? She - or the doctor I might add- hasn't done a complete eye exam yet for glasses. I tell her I will probably get them on line if I do need them because I can get them cheaper than at their place. She goes back out and comes back with another young woman.
This woman proceeds to tell me they can do refraction and I would have to sign a waiver and they would submit it to the insurance company and see if they pay it. I stop her cold and tell her I have a high deductible health plan and pay everything out of pocket anyway. Then she asks me if I want cataract surgery! I kid you not! I was like- "WHAT?!!". I ask her "shouldn't the doctor determine that? I have not seen the doctor yet or had my eyes examined for cataracts or glasses today!"
She smiles and says they usually leave it up to the patients. If their eyesight is not affecting their lifestyle then they may choose to forgo cataract surgery. They could do a dry eye test with a video of the eyes- but would need a waiver signed as they will submit to the insurance company to see if it is paid. Again I mention I have a high deductible plan anyway so I know I would have to pay. But I already know I have dry eyes so why would I need a test? Twice they asked me how often I put drops in my eyes. I tell them once every 4 hours. They ask me how many drops and how often? I tell them one or two drops every 4 hours and a gel at night time. What brand? I tell them all brands- whatever I buy. After a little more discussion they ask me "So you want as little done as possible today?" By now, my head is spinning and I am getting tired. I am not understanding this process. I tell them- yes. I am not going to agree to anything at this point. I just want the doctor to examine my eyes and make sure I have no eye disease or whatever. This whole visit seems so strange.
I tell them I will be moving next year also. "Oh- so Dr "D" would not be doing your surgery anyway". I tell them- "Not unless she thought I needed it right now!"
Just before putting more drops in my eyes for dilating one of them says to the other- shouldn't we do this and that first? I ask if they have reverse drops for when I have to drive home. They tell me no, but I can use sunglasses or they can give me the temp ones. Walk me to another waiting area. I am sitting with several other people my age- all stating they almost did not come because they hate the office process before seeing the doctor. They tell me if it weren't that she is such a good doctor and they needed surgery- they would not be there.
One guy had a melanoma and has to come there every 6 months. Another lady had cornea transplants and practically lives there. Another- for laser surgery. Ok- so it is not only me that feels this way. I'm not crazy.
I finally get in to see the doctor. She puts more drops in my eyes now. She reads my chart. "You only put drops in once per day? " she asks. "Uh- no! I put them in every 4 hours!". SMH....
She then asks about my dry eyes and I explain about my eyelids not opening in the morning. During the day they usually don't bother me but I do put saline in anyway every 4 hours. She proceeds to look at my eyes and calls out some numbers to another assistant there in the room to write in my chart. Says my cataract has "advanced". Says my eyes are very dry. Asks where I am moving. Wishes me luck and leaves.
Needless to say I was not anywhere near happy with this visit. I don't know what anyone else's experience is with eye doctors but this visit was bizarre to say the least and I got nothing out of it other than the doc saying my cataract had advanced but no mention of surgery and that my eyes were dry (which I already knew and she told me two years ago as well)- and she was able to tell me without an expensive dry eye video test. Nor did she make any suggestions to help me with the dry eye issue.
As for my eyesight- well I have had a better eye test at the DMV than here. I mean- really? Reading 3 lines n a chart and that's it? Used to have an extensive eye test with charts and all kinds of things and instruments to compare with the current eye glass prescription.
This is the state of medical care today. Here's to hoping I can find a good eye doctor in New Hampshire. Just unbelievable...
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