...It is hard for someone who makes very little to save, after paying for housing, transportation, food and healthcare. Many of us on TUG are fortunate to have had good careers which allow for savings after paying for necessities....
I didn't start out with a good career!!!!! Recessions that land people in whack jobs are not new, underemployment has occurred for many decades. Setbacks happen to everyone. Hard work doesn't = financial success automatically else I would have been a millionaire before graduating high school.
"Pay yourself first" is not something you hold off on until you are established. Pick a %, siphon it off of income every time and put it somewhere safe. It may not be able to stay there, crap happens, but save every time and only use it for actual emergency. The habit matters more than the amount set aside. The worst thing a person can do is quit saving because they seem to keep having financial disasters. "Save up for the next disaster" is what I would tell them.
Everyone has housing, transportation, food and healthcare costs and limited $. Everyone must set their own priorities as to how to handle their money and sort wants from needs to spend in accordance with income realities now and future. No generation gets a pass on "oh, life is expensive! It's not my fault!" because decreasing expenses is within the control of every person.
I like having 2 vehicles, because I can afford them now. Bought used. But back in the day, I was on foot or bike, often picking my living quarters to decrease transport cost. Eventually used cars with frequent unexpected high used car costs. No one ever said that I was entitled to quality transportation to float my princess butt. I dealt with my economic reality and eventually worked my way up to having more choices in life. There is no path to experience but to march right through life.
Food costs are to me the single easiest place to cut back, but I also buy sensible used cars within budget and maintain them, pay for necessary insurances like everyone else, and don't live in places I can't afford. I could get a roommate, grow more of my own food, make my own clothes, etc.
People make choices. My choices reflect my plan to avoid becoming old and poor, and I started that plan while young. I was in deep debt with a crappy job at recession and it sucked rocks. I happened to think how much worse it would be to be elderly, unable to work one job, let alone 3, in order to improve circumstances. Sacrificing wants and luxuries while young should allow my old age to be more comfortable and maybe even plush. I didn't plan for public or private service one way or another, I aimed for finding something I liked well enough to keep doing, and saved a portion of income each and every time. Employer benefits will be employer benefits, I have never chosen a job based on that, but the age of "this is the employer you will have for 20+ years" was gone by the time I graduated. Picked a place for a pension and made a go of it over entire career? Good for you, lucky few. I'm lucky to have had a near constant 401k since my mid 20s, and it matched for most of that time and some employers threw in more than match. I'm not unhappy to have had multiple employers, I have had an interesting career (to me).
I don't live as frugally as I could, but I don't mind having had the struggle early on because it is easy for me to separate wants from needs and identify exactly where I can cut expenses to adapt to decreased or stoppage of income, or how to increase my income. Having saved, I also have multiple places from which I could extract money if I need it, and a good credit rating providing more credit limit than I ever intend to exercise. Young people should not be sitting around making excuses, and no one should be making excuses for them. I would instead hope that they are making some kind of plan on how to navigate life and float their butts in retirement like every other generation has had to do.
There won't be a pension for me (401k instead, fine with me), but I can absolutely be happy for people that did get their promised pension because a lot of people didn't get theirs and usually thru no fault of their own.