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My husband is here, he just inset sure what is going on.I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this alone.
My husband is here, he just inset sure what is going on.I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this alone.
I am having a bad day, one in which I woke up in a lot pain with nausea and have not been able to get over that exhaustion and pain and nausea. Is this expected? Am i hurting my progress if I don't get in my exercises? I can get around with the walker okay I just don't know if it is okay to give in and just relax or if I need to work through all the pain.
I have the same problem with medication. After a major surgery I used prescription strength tylenol, took the edge of the pain, nausea and hallucinations away. I used ice with it which helped with pain and swelling. I would call your doctor and let him know.There is no pain medicine I can handle. I am allergic to most,I can only handle one, not two of the one I have. How do you handle getting up in night, eating something, then taking pain meds I just can't do this part. Maybe I will send my husband to get ginger capsules, but my situation isn't going to change, the nighties is what is hurting me. I think I overdid last night, never got back on track.
I'd try to set things up where you can sleep downstairs initially if there's a bathroom downstairs. It's hard enough to walk around at first & I wouldn't add stairs to the mix if I could help it. You'll be using a walker initially.I am in 71 with fairly severe osteoarthritis in both knees. I have been able to remain active with periodic shots of monovisc and lately cingal I wonder how difficult navigating up and down stairs of our two storey home will be?
I am in 71 with fairly severe osteoarthritis in both knees. I have been able to remain active with periodic shots of monovisc and lately cingal. I am not overweight weight, and otherwise healthy, and will inevitably have both knees replaced. I have a follow up session with a surgeon in a couple of weeks. Which implants are best, metal or ceramic? I'm retired, but my wife is just finishing up her career and I will not have help during the day. I wonder how difficult navigating up and down stairs of our two storey home will be?
I have not been able to sleep in my bed, it is too high to get in and out. If you have a recliner I would plan to sleep there. If you go upstairs, then plan to stay there. Taking care of myself is exhausting, there is a lot to do.I am in 71 with fairly severe osteoarthritis in both knees. I have been able to remain active with periodic shots of monovisc and lately cingal. I am not overweight weight, and otherwise healthy, and will inevitably have both knees replaced. I have a follow up session with a surgeon in a couple of weeks. Which implants are best, metal or ceramic? I'm retired, but my wife is just finishing up her career and I will not have help during the day. I wonder how difficult navigating up and down stairs of our two storey home will be?
That's why several of us have said that you need to hire caregiver(s) through a home care company even before you had your surgery. They are paid to do their work and they will show up for work and do what is needed. Relying on friends is not the same. Oops, I cannot come over today...yeah, they will help but they happen to be busy. Can you believe after a futile trip on Monday to buy a shower mat, the friends say we will get you one and make sure it will fit. They make a big show on Wednesday of coming in and measuring. They run it in the door on Friday. This is too big, you will need to cut it down, bye we are in a hurry. Haven't heard back except for a text telling me how much I owe them. When I hear again I will get this exasperated voice saying why didn't you put that bath mat in,we went through all the trouble of getting you one.
There is obviously a need to interview a home care agency and hire one to your liking. The agency who is billing you is responsible for sending someone reliable to be with you at the time that you need. If that home care agency does not perform, hire another home care agency.Yes, and I had a lady hired. But that lady is telling something different now, now she might find time for me. My daughter called my insurance company and is arranging something with them. The one through the group who was arranged by the hospital does not meet your description as being there because she was hired by an agency, she has been no show, then one day showed, then had to be called and came two hours late for a total of two visits. It still doesn't help when I need the help the most, which is during the night.
Is this through your long term care insurance?Waiting for call from my insurance company.my daughter arranged it, I will get four hours a day of help and the person will run errands too.
This is good news. Perhaps it will give you a contact for more help if you need it- even if it's private-pay, there are just times when one NEEDS help. Good Luck!Waiting for call from my insurance company.my daughter arranged it, I will get four hours a day of help and the person will run errands too.