You know, when my Outback got to 6.5 years old and started having an oil leak, I was like, ehh, I don't go in to the office daily anymore so I don't need the "always ready to go" that used to keep me trading cars relatively frequently. Then it started just not being ready to go for trips and I realized that while I don't need a car ready to go every day of the week, or even every month necessarily, I do want to be pretty sure I can get in and go *sometimes*. I still think there's a 50/50 chance the shop I went to for the oil leak massively screwed up the car in a subtle way, or else I ended up with a lemon that showed it's spots nearing 7 years old. Either way, after ~6 times basically in a row not being able to use it, for various levels of issues, I lost confidence in the car, or well, the shops ability to fix the car anyway. After 4 stints at the local shop and 2 at the dealer, one for 1.5 months, it might have been fixed. I was able to successfully go to Myrtle Beach and back without it having a drive stoppage issue. It just didn't feel right though, and it did that before the first dealer trip that started various big replacements. So I thought, better trade it while I can get something out of it.
IDK if I have a point here exactly, this was the first Subaru in the family to scare us off before 10 years old. I know people talk up Toyota / Lexus, but the up front cost is way too much more IMHO. I looked at a Highlander but it quickly fell out of the running because of a few things.
- no off road model like Honda or Subaru offer.
- I'm not sure they even had a spare donught tire.
- only offered in 4cyl turbo - I really didn't like the turbos in the Outback 23 I had as a loaner, it didn't get better gas mileage and was a lot more to go wrong IMHO.
I asked the Toyota salesman if they had anything comparable to the Pilot Trailsport and the Grand Highlander was what he showed me. I'm kind of thinking he should have showed me a 4Runner or Sequoia IDK, but I didn't feel the Grand Highlander really was at all comparable. It felt more like a competitor to like the Telluride or standard Pilot.
Anyway, I still miss the bang for buck up front for Subaru, the top of the line Ascent with every add on package was around the price of the Trailsport which doesn't have a bunch of the Black edition features. Just the Ascent was really uncomfortable to sit in. I might have gritted my teeth on the turbo 4 and annoying driver aid and infotainment system and small concern now about the CVT transmission, but it just wasn't comfortable so I wasn't going to go to a less comfortable vehicle than my Outback.
And like someone else said, for $20,000 for an Acura or more for a Lexus, I can live with less fancy leather and maybe needing one extra repair.