All through my early childhood my dad had a WV Beetle. Back then (the early '60's) it was common (at least in our family & the neighbours') to let a child ride in the front seat when just 1 parent was driving. We lived in a very small town with very little traffic. Dad used to let me put my hand on his when he was shifting gears. I did that for ages then one day he said you know where the stick needs to go, when I say ok you change gears. He put the clutch in and said ok, then I shifted! I was probably about 8 or 10 years old. I did that any time just he and I went anywhere until he sold the car and we got an automatic. Many years later an old boyfriend had a Dodge pick-up with 3 on the tree. Since I was usually the designated driver, I learned by trial and error how to drive that. When I started going out with DH he had a 66 Mustang that was a standard. I picked up using the floor stick shift quite easily and DH was impressed. We drove different standard mustangs until we had kids then we bought a standard transmission pick-up truck. For many years, all while our kids were small, my daily driver (and tow vehicle for our camper) was an '85 Ford F-350 Crew Cab with a 4 speed standard transmission. I drove that big sucker shopping, to appointments, shopping, taking kids to friends or practices and even while I was pregnant with our 2nd & 3rd kids. I loved driving it, and felt very safe on the highways. I used to always back into parking spots with it as it was much easier to see if anything was coming when leaving the spot. I actually had a man who was sitting in his car waiting for his wife watch me back into a spot at the grocery store (with 3 kids in car seats in the back seat) in 1 easy movement, perfectly centered in the spot, no in and out to re-position, get out of his car to applaud me! When he looked inside and saw that it was a stick shift he said he was even more impressed.
DH & I taught all 3 of our kids to drive standard with an old car we had during the time they were learning to drive, and they still could drive it if they had to, but all have automatic transmission vehicles. We sold the 35 yr old F-350 a few years ago and now drive a manual transmission Nissan Cube but also have an automatic (only because standard wasnt available) mini-van and Smart car. One thing that is stopping us from buying a newer vehicle is that there are very few available with manual transmissions any more.
~Diane