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Mexico if my husband won't go there

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I can understand not wanting to go to Mexico. There was a time that I didn't want anything to do with travel to Mexico. Not for safety reasons but more for language reasons. My thought back then was I wouldn't be able to communicate with the skippers on the fishing boats. I was wrong.

The reason we went originally was a friend that owned a 2 bed penthouse in Cabo wanted to treat us on our wedding anniversary. After going and doing some things like buying my first time share then canceling my first timeshare, I about gave up on Mexico, but then I went fishing and had multiple marlin hook ups so Im all in now.

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Mexicans say, "In Mexico, bad people die; in the U.S., innocents die."

There's a lot of truth there. In Mexico, drug people kill drug people, and frankly, most people don't care much. In the U.S., you can go to a festival in Tulsa and 5 people get shot; you can be a cop in Seattle in a coffee shop and be shot; you can go to a political rally in Tucson and be shot, or be an elementary age child shot at school. Things like that don't happen in Mexico.
 

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My DH wants nothing to do with Mexico either so I'm going with the LadiesVacation group and PatH in March. (NV for one week) This will be my first trip to Mexico and it's never been high on my list, (probably because the DH didn't want to go) but I figured it's time to try it. I'm not worried since I will be with the group.
 

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My DH wants nothing to do with Mexico either so I'm going with the LadiesVacation group and PatH in March. (NV for one week) This will be my first trip to Mexico

You'll have a great time. Just watch out for the TS 'bodysnatchers' and the margaritas. If it was good enough for Liz and Dick, it oughtta be good enough for you. :)
 

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My husband feels unsafe in Mexico. But if I could get a resort perhaps in Cancun or Cabo, do you think that might be convincing that it's not in the heart of Mexico and would be safe? I'd love to go to either destination. Sigh. Please don't dump on my man, he's a wonderful guy; just protective of his love.

It could absolutely be convincing, but be prepared to go without him and have a great time.

I was able to convince several friends and family members that had never left the US to go to Cabo and they loved it. Hey, Oprah and Bill Gates have homes there, how creepy could it be? Don't drive, that cuts anxiety.

I'm not into arm-twisting people, tho, and only you know your relationship. Maybe he gets a trip that you don't want to go on (dunno, fishing hunting camping sporting/hobby event...)

If you REALLY want to go to Cabo, please do. I love it there and keep returning even tho there are so many other parts of the world I have yet to explore.
 

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I have the same issue with my husband. I want to go to Cabo, but he won't go and has actually said that I am not allowed to go. I don't understand why. He would let me go alone to Orlando and Orlando is way scarier than most places in Mexico.
I have been considering a cruise to Mexico. :wall:

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cruise - there was a royal carribean itinerary out of Galveston that visited some cities with ruins...
 

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My fear of going to Mexico is about the same as getting on a plane. I hate flying but will fly to get to places. I know that I will have a great time in Mexico but there is still an inherent fear. If you let fear take over you then you stop living.
 

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I guess I would suggest Cabo first, since it is the most non-mexican setting. Kinda like being in southern CA. The airport is nice. Cancun is also a good option for first timers. Easier plane connections, I think.

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I know a TUGger (rarely posts) who told his story once here. I don't know if he posts on TUG anymore. He had a scary experience. He was in Cancun, he and his wife and another couple. They chose one of the private bus excursions to see some ruins (don't remember what exactly), and the federalis stopped the bus and walked up and down the aisles of the bus with guns and rifles, asking people for their identification. Scared the pee out of him.

He never went to Mexico again and bought two more weeks on Maui.

His story didn't scare me off from Mexico, but a friend of ours went to Mexico two years ago and was sitting at a table in a bar. There was a gunfight in the bar. Several people were killed. It made the national news.

Still not sure I am afraid of going. I just love Hawaii, and we go twice per year fairly cheaply. I haven't felt a need to go to Mexico.
 

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My husband was certain he did not want to go ANYWHERE in Mexico, but then grand-daughter asked for us to escort a group of friends to Cabo for a graduation party of sorts. I finally convinced him to go because I told him I would go without him. The funniest part was that we just happened to be there when the 2012 G20 Summit was going on. Our timeshare was pretty well over-run with the federales who were staying there while guarding one or more of the heads of nations.
 

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His story didn't scare me off from Mexico, but a friend of ours went to Mexico two years ago and was sitting at a table in a bar. There was a gunfight in the bar. Several people were killed. It made the national news.

Going to a local bar is just not a good idea. Heck, there are often fights and shooting at the local bars in the city where I live in right now!
 

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I know a TUGger (rarely posts) who told his story once here. I don't know if he posts on TUG anymore. He had a scary experience. He was in Cancun, he and his wife and another couple. They chose one of the private bus excursions to see some ruins (don't remember what exactly), and the federalis stopped the bus and walked up and down the aisles of the bus with guns and rifles, asking people for their identification. Scared the pee out of him.

He never went to Mexico again and bought two more weeks on Maui.

His story didn't scare me off from Mexico, but a friend of ours went to Mexico two years ago and was sitting at a table in a bar. There was a gunfight in the bar. Several people were killed. It made the national news.
Cindy- anyone can post stores like that about any locale. One or two stories doesn't define anything.

You like Hawaii. So let me tell you a personal story. Our son was in a group of kids who were assaulted on Anahola Beach. they were singled out specifically because they were tourists and though no one was hospitalized some of the kids received medical attention and several of the women had some of their clothing ripped off of them. Kauai police blew it off; didn't do anything because they were haoles on Anahola after dark. Essentially told them that they should have known better.

But that doesn't stop us from going. But it took about ten years until my sone was willing to return to Hawaii. But now he's come back.

I have another son who absolutely refuses to return to Hawaii. He was with us one time, but got a bunch of stink-eye and he won't return. So he and his wife go to Cayman every year.

Then about a year there was the situation of two tourists from Great Britain who were in Miami Beach, and decided to walk about a mile to a nearby 24-hour restaurant. They made a wrong turn, and both of them were assaulted and killed.

And about ten years ago there was a group in Florida, around Orlando if I remember correctly, that seemed to be targeting German tourists for robberies and assaults. Set off the kind of hysteria in Germany about going to Florida that we usually see about violence in Mexico.

Then in the last couple of years there have been several cases in California of tourists going to stadium to cheer on their home town who was the visiting team, and those have been brutally assaulted by local fans. If a person is going to hold to that kind of logic, they should never go to an out-of-town stadium in the US as a fan of the visiting team because not just once, but at least twice now, such fans have been assaulted.
Still not sure I am afraid of going. I just love Hawaii, and we go twice per year fairly cheaply. I haven't felt a need to go to Mexico.

We love Hawaii too, and we've been going there almost every year for fifteen years now. Then about six years ago we started going to Mexico in February. And we've started going back almost every year. For both trips I use our Alaska Airlines companion fares, and we do our timeshares.

But one of the things I love is that the week we spend in Mexico costs us about one-third of what it costs us in Hawaii. The air fare is cheaper. The food is cheaper. When we do activities it's cheaper. We skip car rental.

The people are gracious and hospitable. And on top of all that, it's safer than Hawaii!! Downtown Puerto Valllarta vs. Waikiki??? No comparison.
 

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I know a TUGger (rarely posts) who told his story once here. I don't know if he posts on TUG anymore. He had a scary experience. He was in Cancun, he and his wife and another couple. They chose one of the private bus excursions to see some ruins (don't remember what exactly), and the federalis stopped the bus and walked up and down the aisles of the bus with guns and rifles, asking people for their identification. Scared the pee out of him.

He never went to Mexico again and bought two more weeks on Maui.

His story didn't scare me off from Mexico, but a friend of ours went to Mexico two years ago and was sitting at a table in a bar. There was a gunfight in the bar. Several people were killed. It made the national news.

Still not sure I am afraid of going. I just love Hawaii, and we go twice per year fairly cheaply. I haven't felt a need to go to Mexico.


My husband and I took the bus from Jerusalem to Palestine where we were spending 6 nights while visiting Israel this past April/May, and at the border crossing between Israel and Palestine the Israelie guards boarded the bus with machine guns to check ID"s and passports. This happened both entering and leaving Palestine. It really was an experience. Oddly enough I was not alarmed in any way. I guess you get used to seeing thingslike this In recent years armed guards are at many European airports, especially Munich and Frankfort, I regularly see armed guards driving in Cancun trying to keep anything happening there, tanks , soldiers etc. in Egypt, and guards all over Palestine.
On another note while in Palestine we stayed at the Intercontinental Jacir Palace and it was a beautiful hotel with a lovely staff.
 
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a friend of ours went to Mexico two years ago and was sitting at a table in a bar. There was a gunfight in the bar. Several people were killed. It made the national news.

Your friend was at that bar??? Really? Did you ask them what in the world they were doing at that sleazy, locals drug haunt? I'd be more interested in that part of the story....
 

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bolded part :hysterical:

cruise - there was a royal carribean itinerary out of Galveston that visited some cities with ruins...

Our first MX experience was via cruise. We did horseback riding to the ruins. I hated it (horses and I don't get along) but get this, DH loved it. This was Cozumel in 2006. He hasn't returned to MX since, I have. :D
 

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My husband and I took the bus from Jerusalem to Palestine where we were spending 6 nights while visiting Israel this past April/May, and at the border crossing between Israel and Palestine the Israelie guards boarded the bus with machine guns to check ID"s and passports. This happened both entering and leaving Palestine. It really was an experience. Oddly enough I was not alarmed in any way. I guess you get used to seeing thingslike this In recent years armed guards are at many European airports, especially Munich and Frankfort, I regularly see armed guards driving in Cancun trying to keep anything happening there, tanks , soldiers etc. in Egypt, and guards all over Palestine.
On another note while in Palestine we stayed at the Intercontinental Jacir Palace and it was a beautiful hotel with a lovely staff.

You were in Bethlehem.
 

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Y'know there are self-contained resorts there. Take the resort's shuttle from/to the airport, and never leave the beautifully manicured grounds. He'd hardly know he wasn't in San Diego or Hawaii, or Key West.

Then why bother? May as well go to San Diego or Hawaii, or Key West. :cool:
 

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Then why bother? May as well go to San Diego or Hawaii, or Key West. :cool:

Then the OP gets to go to Mexico- accompanied by her husband- which is what she wants. And HE gets insulated from his perceived 'danger' of Mexico, which is what he wants. Win-Win.

I agree that going to a self-contained resort isn't my cup-o'-tea, but neither is vacationing alone.
 

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I always wanted to go to Cabo, but after reading all these posts, I probably won't. If it isn't like Mexico, it's not worth my time.

The main thing I want to do in Mexico is shop for family made goods. My family went to Tijuana annually for shopping and touristy stuff when I was a kid. Of course, when I became a young adult, I went to some clubs down there. Lots of fun dance clubs with margaritas for the younger adults.

I really miss the shopping from the handmade family businesses. Do they have that in Cabo? Maybe I need to go to Ensenada.
 

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I always wanted to go to Cabo, but after reading all these posts, I probably won't. If it isn't like Mexico, it's not worth my time.

The main thing I want to do in Mexico is shop for family made goods. My family went to Tijuana annually for shopping and touristy stuff when I was a kid. Of course, when I became a young adult, I went to some clubs down there. Lots of fun dance clubs with margaritas for the younger adults.

I really miss the shopping from the handmade family businesses. Do they have that in Cabo? Maybe I need to go to Ensenada.

We lived in Guadalajara 41 years ago, which helped to create our love for Mexico. We go to Cancun and the Mayan Riviera three times a year. We love it. About 5 years ago we went to Cabo. We hated it-- we felt that was an extension of California. They did not even use pesos. We are going to Puerto Vallarta in two weeks-- we have not been there in 40 years-- so we will see!:cheer:
 

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We travel frequently and about equally to Mexico, Hawaii and SoCal. With young children. I feel about an equal amount of unease in all three places. And each locale has it's plusses and minuses, which is why we rotate. Our last three trips have been to Hawaii. We are ready for a change and our next two beach trips are to Mexico (Playa del Carmen and either Cabo or PV). We need our Mexico fix - I like the food better in Mexico and also the locals - they are waaaaaay friendlier.
 

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I always wanted to go to Cabo, but after reading all these posts, I probably won't. If it isn't like Mexico, it's not worth my time.

The main thing I want to do in Mexico is shop for family made goods. My family went to Tijuana annually for shopping and touristy stuff when I was a kid. Of course, when I became a young adult, I went to some clubs down there. Lots of fun dance clubs with margaritas for the younger adults.

I really miss the shopping from the handmade family businesses. Do they have that in Cabo? Maybe I need to go to Ensenada.

Our first trip to Mexico was Cancún - actually that was DW and DD. I stayed home and replaced the floors in the dining room. They enjoyed it, and that kind of broke the ice for DW.

So a few later she was amenable when a TUGger offered us a direct exchange for a condo they owned in Cabo. We enjoyed that, but decided to go to Puerto Vallarta for our next visit.

And we definitely like Puerto Vallarta over Cabo, for just that reason. We've decided that if we were ever to get to Cancún together, we would like to stay in Isla Mujeres. And I have my eyes on Zihuatanejo and Oaxaca. Though Oaxaca most likely would be just me.
 

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Cabo 'feels' like an extension of California. Cancun/Riviera Maya 'feel' like S.Florida to me. If I want a more Mexican experience, I choose PV, Guadalajara, or Zihuatanejo. Ymmv.
 

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My family and I have been vacationing in the Cancun/Playa del Carmen area for the past 20+ years. Went to PV once and didnt care for it at all. Seemed like San Diego to me. Best day there was when we left and did a day trip to Yalapa. To each their own..
 

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Downtown Puerto Valllarta vs. Waikiki??? No comparison.
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Not a fan of Waikiki, but we have a lot of relatives and friends who live on Oahu. a very recent and strange migration from San Diego, Colorado, Nebraska and Wyoming. I cannot explain it.

We have a wedding coming up in June, supposed to be on Oahu. Rick and I aren't going, necessarily, even though it's our niece. We are going to Napa the week before and the Big Island in August. A third trip to Hawaii definitely doesn't appeal to me.

I said I wasn't afraid to go to Mexico. :rofl:
 
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